We got married, we had kids, we grew apart. We have been divorced for 2 years and although it saddens me that my family has been broken apart, I am happy that my ex and I have have managed to be civil enough to make it okay for the kids. My fianc\u00e9 is 19, and we have a daughter four months old. Yes, we had sex when he was 18 and I got pregnant. He\u2019s been living with me ever since.<\/p>\n
Can I just ask what race this man is? I don’t mean to sound racist or jump to any conclusions. I work for the nhs myself and I know a lot of doctors. I know what a lot of doctors also get up to! You would think being a dr they would be sensible etc but it is not always the case.<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t understand these women\u2019s actions because I\u2019ve always been respectful of people, especially the men I\u2019ve been with. Sure I\u2019ve had my teeth kicked in after putting my trust in a man, several times in fact, but I have fought my urge to consider all men to be jerks. Not all of my experiences with men have been bad, so I hold on to the hope that I can find something good again with someone, even though the odds are not great. Then again which you\u2019re just a very retarded low life loser woman that uses men for money anyway. Well i would say so since by the way i am not fat at all and a very good looking guy by the way. I will certainly say that the women in the old days really did put You Women today to total shame altogether as well since they were really the opposite of You.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s never been easy, and the search for has become exponentially more difficult since we were young. Gentlemen, I understand your frustration over the current state of relations between the sexes. Sorry, Dave, that you\u2019ve been treated so poorly.<\/p>\n
I can be a SD but my days of the monitory support is over. If we are emotionally equal than I have no issue. LOL, all the women here say they look much younger than they are. I think most of us guys would disagree with that. I am 63 and I date women in their 30s and 40s. They take much better care of themselves and they are Interested in sex.<\/p>\n
Let\u2019s take responsibility for our actions and give each other a break. Everyone is doing the best they can in this life. I really can see why they\u2019re all single. But what about a simple friendship with a woman of substance. Finding the right person to be happy with is worth the risk and the time.<\/p>\n
And even if you find someone that wants to date you , after one date they already start implying sexual stuff . 82.5% of post menopausal are not interested that leaves 17.5% \u2013 guess you are part of that group. Problem is that don\u2019t know if a women is in that 1.5% group. Kinda like the insurance stats for only males that stats are more likely to get into an accident and therefore the premiums are greater \u2013 an issue for my son but the insurance companies won\u2019t budge. I am not looking for a physical relationship with 50 somethings though the ladies would like physical sex.<\/p>\n
I just need some kind words of advice as I’m in a panic. This guy is 35, my husband and I are only 45 and 46. I didn’t think much of it honestly, she’s 20 so she can do whatever she wants as long as she’s safe but I thought I’d ask her about it anyway.<\/p>\n
But she wants to hold hands, smooch in the movie theatre and never turns some opportunity because \u2018its late and I have to get up in the morning\u2019. That was so funny and yet wise and true. The only way to find yourself in a \u201cgreat\u201d relationship is to love and look out for yourself first. If you do that, you\u2019ll be happy with or without a partner. William, don\u2019t confuse bitterness with anger, men hitting on women young enough to be their daughter will encounter a lot of it, it\u2019s unwelcome and irritating.<\/p>\n
Plus, just because a woman is childless herself doesn\u2019t mean she doesn\u2019t consider her sister\u2019s teens like her own. Her idea of family is a little less traditional, but that means she gets invited to no less than three Thanksgiving dinners every year. And she probably tries to attend all of them\u2014or at least FaceTime every group to wish them a happy holiday. As women get older, they realize time is limited.<\/p>\n
DaveW\u2026\u2026I easily fit into your criteria and I am attractive, intelligent, funny, and respectful. I can easily hold a conversation and I am genuinely interested in who I am talking with. At almost 52 it has been no picnic trying to find a man who is secure within himself and trusting enough to really want a relationship anymore. I am not a bar scene gal, and dating sites are terrible. Left to my own devices I am having terrible luck. And the kicker is, I value a man for who he is, not for what he owns or has in the bank.<\/p>\n
While it\u2019s important to consider what a big age gap might mean for your relationship down the road, don\u2019t let the thoughts and worries prevent you from enjoying your relationship now. So rather than try to brush your age difference under the rug and forget about it, take the time to acknowledge what this age gap will mean for you at certain stages of your lives. For example, if you start dating someone who is 20 when you are 26 years old, they are within the acceptable age range, according to the rule, but it is the very limit of your minimum age range.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t waste anyone\u2019s time, if you don\u2019t want an exclusive relationship, then be honest so the other person can have a chance to back out. And if they do want to back out, let them, don\u2019t keep chasing them down as though you really want only them. It is a horrible situation for sure. The decent and caring among us can\u2019t find each other for something real and fulfilling. At 51 I am trying very hard not to give up, but I was just rejected by a man who agreed we were very compatible. His view on spirituality and mine didn\u2019t gel, but I accepted him wholeheartedly regardless.<\/p>\n