I feel like I am in prison when I\u2019m with him, and I love my freedom, but I love him tooo.. I\u2019m a young Gemini chick (20\u2019s) dating an older cancer male\u2026..I\u2019m bored. We have almost nothing in common that I can tell , but the physical attraction is strong. It gets irritating sometimes and I just want to do my own thing, but I can\u2019t stop thinking about him. I mean really love me and is just not tolerting me. I\u2019ve been completely honset with him about my feelings an heseem to be honset with his as well.<\/p>\n
She likes to circulate at a gathering and talk to as many people as possible, while he feels neglected and waits uncomfortably in the corner. On the negative side, Cancerian men can be prone to moodiness, and his insecurities can drive off partners who expect him to be a bastion of confidence. For the crab, security and a deep emotional connection rank far above the fun and excitement that the typical Gemini demands. He is able to see what needs to be done and to provide direction, but sometimes his emotions get in the way.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s very important to the Cancer man that he knows where the next penny is coming from. Not so for the Gemini woman, who will happily rely on her wits and charm, confident that she\u2019ll get by even if she doesn\u2019t quite know how right now. The Cancer man and Gemini woman will have many disputes over finances, and the Gemini woman will quickly start to feel that her freedom is being clipped. There\u2019s plenty of mutual attraction here to begin with. The Cancer man is drawn to the Gemini woman\u2019s liveliness, friendliness and her ability to be a great listener. The Gemini woman is entranced by the Cancer man\u2019s romantic persona and the way he wants to nurture her and look after her.<\/p>\n
This gives this lady a curiosity and willingness to be alive. Mercury is one of the most important planets in Astrology because of how integral it is to our daily functioning, especially for Gemini women. The Moon is a motherly planet linked heavily with the ocean, and so qualities of water and that which is hidden live within him. Sure, this may be unusual for a man, but we need more men who are this sensitive.<\/p>\n
When the Air of Gemini man and Water of Cancer woman mix, sexually, they form an aromatic cool breeze that keeps growing with growing nearness. The Gemini man and the Cancer woman have a strong intimate relationship in the mind and at emotional level over a physical relationship. She is tender, affectionate and highly imaginative while he is sexually sensitive and delicate with his touch.<\/p>\n
However, this can mean that they both get easily hurt by their partners – again not helps by those impossibly high standards that they set each other. If you let him know where you stand, you shouldn\u2019t have any issues from your Gemini guy. Compatibility match does have its problems which we list below. If you\u2019re in partnership with a Gemini guy, or you are in a couple with an Aries woman, don\u2019t worry that the below characteristics will both be in your personalities.<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t mean to pry, but I\u2019m trying to understand. Gemini is the child and Cancer is the parent, you can\u2019t expect a child to behave like a grown up. They are learners and some need to learn the hard way. Thanks because I was about to run for the hills.<\/p>\n
However, their mellow nature, ability to feel and have enough compassion for each other, makes them great candidates for marriage, children and the whole picket fence scenario. They will share the same values and understand each other perfectly in this segment of their relationship. Their similarity comes to focus right here, where they are free to value emotional clarity, peace and a calm, family life someone is able to create. This could keep them together in a loving relationship even if they maybe didn\u2019t seem perfect for each other in the first place.<\/p>\n
Well, there is something about Sagittarius\u2019 optimism and good humor that draws Cancer into its orbit. With his marriage to Katherine, Chris has surrounded himself with some influential and protective family members (very crablike!). His in-laws include the Kennedys and the Schwarzeneggers. Chris proves that sometimes the unlikely pairing of Sagittarius and Cancer does work.<\/p>\n
When the Gemini you are dating wants to try something different, go for it; don’t try to force the “old way” upon them. Don’t hold a Gemini back, and don’t control him or her. They don’t need someone to constantly hold their hand, and they most certainly don’t like being controlled. Geminis need space to experience the world on their own. If you try to control a Gemini, you will end up with a very unhappy boyfriend or girlfriend.At the same time, however, remember to offer support if a Gemini asks for it.<\/p>\n